What's a yes.
Mark what you want, what you'd consider, what's off the table. Skip anything that doesn't apply.
Mark what you want, what you'd consider, what's off the table. Skip anything that doesn't apply.
Mark what you want, what you'd consider, what's off the table. Skip anything that doesn't apply.
Pre-scene negotiation
Limits and expectations agreed before anything starts.
Negotiation — first-time partner
More questions, more time, less assumed.
Safeword — verbal
Green, yellow, red.
Safeword — non-verbal signal
Dropped object, three squeezes, a tap.
Check-ins mid-scene
Brief, often physical.
Aftercare — physical
Water, blanket, food, marks tended.
Aftercare — emotional
Quiet talking, reassurance.
Aftercare — solo / space
Some people land best alone.
Sub drop / top drop check-in
Sometimes hours later, sometimes days.
Scene debrief next day
What worked, what didn't.
Hard limits — sharing in writing
STI status disclosure
Before fluids cross.
Trigger / trauma disclosure
Only what's relevant.
Birth control / barrier method discussion
Specific to the bodies involved.